Two things I learnt today. First, when talking to a woman only relate a personal experience if it will create a sense of empathy for her. Relating my experience is midwife-centred instead of woman-centred. I could hear myself relating something and realised that it didn't contribute much value.
Second, and most valuable! It has been obvious and reinforced time and time again. Don't ever overlook or ignore experience just because I might have learnt differently, being proud, be feeling stupid, cocky and confident. Experience counts for more than the fresh new learning. Reading a book, doing an assignment or test, don't count for as much as years and years of experience. And remember that on the ward we are a team providing care. Remember all the bad, sad and silly stories whenever I go out on practice or after I graduate.
A good point J* mentioned was to trust my instincts. Also reinforcing the classes to look at "the whole person" not just taking obs. Consider their mood and coping and support as well.
